A little backstory, I am a single guy swinger live in the Pacific Northwest. Which has a rather large bisexual community.
I use a Hotwife dating site to meet the many lovely folks and spark up some wonderful friendships.
It clearly states on my profile as “Straight”.
Yet once a month I get the following messages.
“I’ll let you play with me first and then you can have my wife”
“Would you like to get together and jerk off to my wife porn.”
“You must please me first, my mistress demands you serve us”
Or my personal favorite.
“I want to surprise my wife with her fantasy of two guys and her only watching”
When I politely decline, most are reasonable, but a recent inquire was baffled that a straight single male was using a swinger dating site. Because I wasn’t a BBC, I must be Bi.
I told this fellow I was neither and I’m mostly just a friendly third party that takes part in Gangbangs or Greedy Girl events.
Then he will ask “Have you ever been bi-curious?. I usually respond “Sorry, not interested” and immediately get called out for homophobia.
What always makes this odd, is it’s usually the male half that contacts me and not the wife. So has anybody else ever had such strange thing happen them?