As many swingers prefer same room swaps, we have somehow always seemed to prefer separate rooms. By separate I mean we all double date, dinner, drinks, flirting, laughter, conversation, dancing, whatever the night may bring, ALL AS A FOURSOME. Then go to a hotel or host’s home. Eventually splitting up to separate areas and playing one on one.
Tonight we were with a couple that we really liked that are same room only. We tried it because we thought maybe we could make it work. We had fun but both of us just truly weren’t comfortable because we just prefer that one on one time with our new sex partners. I wish i could explain it better. We just want to concentrate on our new friends without distractions of the others. Neither of us orgasmed. The couple had fun (orgasmed) but we just weren’t in the right frame of mind because of having the ‘audience’.
Wish it were easier to find like minds on this. Very few are ‘separate’ rooms. Really frustrating. Feeling so much like the minority. Anyone else like us out there? Or are we alone on this frame of mind?