Our First MFM Swinger experience

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Hey everyone! I’m a long time lurker first time poster and just wanted to share how my first MFM swinging experience went this weekend.

Hubby and I discussed playing with a single guy for about 6 months. I was a bit nervous and I’m naturally shy so before our date got to the hotel hubby and I drank a little and watched some comedies to unwind which helped a lot. Right before our date was to arrive I was handcuffed and blindfolded. I felt vulnerable in the most amazing way! It was such a turn on!

They were both silent in the room. All I could hear were pants being unzipped and dropping to the floor but didn’t know who was who. Suddenly my legs were thrown open and I was eaten out. I wasn’t sure who it was at first. I then realized it was our date. We’ll call him “Craig” lol. He ate me out so intensely, I immediately began squirming and moan with each lick. Then my husband jumped next to me and started licking my nipples. The next 4 hours we jumped from position to position with me sucking them off and getting fucked.

After we said goodnight to Craig. My husband and I had the most beautiful and intense reclamation sex. We both had an AMAZING first swinger experience. We can’t wait to do it again!

I wanted to share a few things we learned…

I know a lot of people suggest having a drink beforehand but I actually wish I hadn’t. Imo being under the influence took away from the experience and we both ended up with hangovers the day after.

You can go into it with a bunch a rules but in the heat of the moment, those may get thrown out the window. That may not be okay with everyone but it was ok for us. We just lived in the moment. If something was happening that we both agreed was “off” the list we’d glance at each other and if neither of us was bothered we’d continue.

Bring lube!!! I NEVER need to use it since I’m a squirter and I typically stay really wet. But chances are after being pounded out for hours….you may need it.

Don’t be afraid to speak up if you’re being asked to do something that you’re not into.

Overall, it was great and I learned a lot more lessons but can’t think of them at the moment. If I remember I’ll update my post!

 

10 COMMENTS

  1. Glad you had an awesome time!

    I love a good planned date with a couple like this because it is always far more comfortable and relaxed and we can really all enjoy the experience.

    And your tips are spot on. The wettest women I know still need a little live help in this kind of scenario. It no fun being super sore and irritated from the fun!

  2. This sounds so hot! Did you see, meet or know anything about the guy before hand? Or was this all husband arranged?

  3. I love that! I would LOVE MMF where everyone shares everyone, is that how yours went? Did the men enjoy each other too? Also can you share how you found this man and had you met him before or spoken on the phone prior?
    BTW I am single

  4. >You can go into it with a bunch a rules but in the heat of the moment those may get thrown out the window. That may not be okay with everyone but it was ok for us. We just lived in the moment.

    This. Absolutely this.

    Congrats on a sexy and successful 1st encounter and good on you for seizing the moment with heat and passion!

  5. That’s so awesome! We talked about it for about a month and I’m impatient so we dove in with a couple first and it was great and has been going great! I’ve noticed that I need lube too and I also drink water in between positions and I try not to drink. Some of the women we’ve been with do drink and I’m so impatient I just want to pounce on them! So glad you had a great time!

  6. Congrats on first first experience. We have had a few things we’ve done, MFM included, but that is something I (M) want to do one day for her and she likes the idea of being blindfolded and surprised with two males, not immediately sure who is who. Sounds hot!

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