So i feel like as the male i am most involved in furthering our swingers experience. I was wondering what i can do to “take a backseat” to looking for couples/clubs ect but encourage my SO to take the reins so to say. I want her to get more involved in seeking out couples or a third to play with.
Looking for both male and female experiences in encouraging the female partner to take more charge.
I feel like it would make a better/more enjoyable experience for her. But she is shy “at first” and i kinda want to break her out of the shell without making it feel pressured.