Young Swingers Week Review

Hi all, We just got back from Hedonism where we spent the last week with the young swingers group. I wanted to pop in and give a rave review on the group, the people, the resort, the organizers, and a few fellow redditors that were there. You were all so friendly and welcoming! Literally the…

Looking for advice: when one of you is more into the...

My wife and I have played with a few couples and had single guys join us a few times. We've had some misses (where her needs weren't met, usually because a guy has trouble performing). Overall we like the spice it adds to our marriage. We talk about it in bed to goad each other…
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Went to a swingers club for the first time….

Hey all! My fiancée and I had been talking about a threesome with another woman for a little while (6~ months maybe) and after a drunken experience with a partial threesome she was more gung-ho about it. We put it off for a bit due to sports for the kids and always being busy. Then…
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Advice from the ladies

Been in the lifestyle in my past relationships and dabble now. Enjoyed myself sometimes but if being truthful, went along with a lot of it in the past. It wasn’t bad experiences but I found I liked the sex and flirting in public. It wasn’t about having sex so much as probably more of being…

We appreciate you writing, but it doesn’t sound like we would...

Ugh. Had to write that message twice today to couples who reached out to us, but their profile made it perfectly clear they are only interested in women. We male halves aren’t window dressing. My message was polite, but I really wanted to tell them to fuck off 🙄. Stop reaching out to couples if…
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Club Sapphire Seattle Review

My apologies for this being forever and half late on this but you know life gets in the way sometimes. First time doing a review and on mobile My fiancé and I attended on a Saturday which just so happen to be their 4th Anniversary Gala. The club is in an industrial area just outside…
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What do you mean you’re not Bi? Your profile says your...

A little backstory, I live in the Pacific Northwest. Wich has a rather large bisexual community. I use a Hotwife dating site to meet the many lovely folks and spark up some wonderful friendships. It clearly states on my profile as "Straight". Yet once a month I get the following messages. "I'll let you play…
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Tonight’s the night… first MFM. Any last minute advice?

Married couple, been together for 10 years… Got some good advice from past posts and wondering if anyone has some good last minute thoughts. We’re both pretty nervous! Read More

How to stay discreet?

Newbie here! Any advice on how to keep this lifestyle secret from the rest of the world? How about avoiding fakes online? I’m excited to start meeting new people but worried about confidentiality. My next task is to get onto a site but I’m nervous about adding names and photos. Most people think I’m super…
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Hosting an orgy tomorrow: the preparation part is actually so much...

TLDR: we're hosting our first orgy, we created three games, made a flyer, and it's been super fun to plan. Hey guys! I have no idea if this is the kind of post that you will enjoy reading, but I felt like sharing hahaha. So a little bit of background. My girlfriend and I have…