first-swinger-experience

Our First MFM Swinger experience

Hey everyone! I'm a long time lurker first time poster and just wanted to share how my first swinging experience went this weekend. Hubby and I discussed playing with a third party for about 6 months. I was a bit nervous and im naturally shy so before our date got to the hotel hubby and…
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Le Boudoir London Review

Hi Guys, ​ So, this weekend (Saturday 18th) we (Me 33M, her 33F) visited a club for the first time - Le Boudoir in London. We've never tried anything like this before, so was our opportunity to dip our toe in the LS for the first time. I wanted to share some thoughts/impressions! ​ Firstly,…
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How do you go from dinner and drinks to the bedroom?

My (29m) wife (29f)and I are still pretty new to the LS. We’ve had one soft swap and a full swap with a different couple that didn’t go so well, you can check it out in my post history if you’d like to know details. We’ve got a date with a new couple in a…

First Swinging Experience

Finally had our first real swap! We met the couple for dinner first another night and then met again for dinner and then back to our house. We have fun sex games (best one was the game of lifestyle!) and kind of eased into the night with games and drinks. The mood was right and…
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Separate Or Same Room Fun?

As many prefer same room swaps, we have somehow always seemed to prefer separate rooms. By separate I mean we all double date, dinner, drinks, flirting, laughter, conversation, dancing, whatever the night may bring, ALL AS A FOURSOME. Then go to a hotel or host's home. Eventually splitting up to separate areas and playing one…

The side effects of a nude spa…

Hi everyone, I'm pretty new to Reddit so excuse me if I sound amateur or not very experienced... My g/f and I have been talking about going to a nude spa here in Amsterdam and we finally did. I was very skeptical about the idea but decided to give it a go. Once we got…
cuckqueen

Cuckquean?

Last year I dated a wonderful man who was entirely open to allowing me to truly explore my kinky side. I had been very bi-curious and swinger curious (not sure if that’s a thing) and he was open to all of it. We started a search for a girl as well as a couple. We…

Thinking about Privata for first experience at a club

Curious about the age range and whether people are there to play or is it more of a nightclub scene? We're in our early 40s but relatively new to all of this and thought a trip to Privata might be a fun way to wade into the shallow end. Read More

Penis Size (Length / Girth) + Male Body Positive Issues

Hey Reddit, ​ I often notice posts about women being more body positive and can personally say that I talk about that more (from a women's perspective) but I'm curious about the men out there. ​ What kinds of insecurities exist, I'm assuming most would be the same.... - Body shape / Size - I…
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Flirting Tips For Single Men At A Swingers Club

So, you’re meeting a new couple either at a club or on a date. You’ve gotten past the introductions. What are techniques to indicate interest and to escalate the sensuality of the interaction before transitioning to play? I find myself just continuing regular conversation. I know many women would prefer to be made to feel…