Hi all. Just wanted some input on definitions. Somewhat out of curiosity of what kind of couple the community would define us as… and also not wanting to violate rule #5 of this group. We have had 2 adventures. Both times she played with a single guy first (no girl involved), then he “reclaimed her”.
What looks like swinging to me: 1) No humiliation or demeaning talk/action of or to him, 2) he was in the room, 3) he had sex with her directly afterwards (but not at same time), both participated in selecting and meeting the guy beforehand as equals.
What looks like more of a cuckold situation: 1) never really looked for a couple, only looked for a “bull”, 2) no guy on guy action or even touching her at same time…he waiting until the guy was done. So it wasn’t really a 3 way.
I realize both swinging and cuckoldry and hotwifing are a spectrum…maybe we are in the crossover zone…but the experts are certainly here on this forum!
Both adventures were amazing and have strengthened our sex lives and relationship.
P.S. Totally irrelevant, but she is Asian, he is white and both bulls were hung black men….for us that spiced things up even more.