Not trying to be elitist or anything.. just curious by the use of the label really.
Me and my wife have often been to sex and fetish clubs where we’ve met single guys who introduce themselves as swingers, which is always a little jarring. In the past I’ve even asked “where’s your partner?” and they quickly said “oh, no, I’m single” and/or “I’m here on my own.”
It just raises an eyebrow with me. Surely if you are single you aren’t a swinger because you can have sex with whomever you like.. just like every other single person out there.